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I’m curious, thoughtful and young at heart, with a love of music, interesting conversations and exploring new...

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I am an active independent man who has had a very successful interesting career and now has time and desire to...

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I have a fun, lighthearted personality and a passion for being positive and trying to see the glass half full in...

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I am a caring individual who treats people the way I would like to be treated, trustworthy, generous and Easy...

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John, 27 June 2026
I met my lady online in February. She lives in France but I flew out to meet her and we clicked immediately. We are now spending most of our time together in one place or another.
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I was about to give up when I saw a single photo of a lady who seems to be my soul mate and who had just joined this site. We met for three dates but knew on the first one that we had never enjoyed so much ease in anyone's company ever before. We have never laughed so much or had so may sleepless nights as we communicate daily, several times a day and night. This is definitely it. At our age, we should know. (-;
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