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52 - Westminster, London, England

People should get to know me because I am a positive, supportive, and active person, with a calm and optimistic...

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60 - Gloucester, Gloucestershire, England

I like to keep fit - gym - swim - spin- proper cycling too. An occasional walker that has done the big 3 -...

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62 - Lambeth, London, England

I’m an easygoing and (I believe) affable chap with a most fulfilling life. I’ve attained professional success...

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65 - Hereford, Herefordshire, England

Just a simple honest guy with a good sense of humour and a zest for life. I used to be a professional Chef in...

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50 - Watford, Hertfordshire, England

I’m curious by nature — about people, ideas, and the stories that sit just beneath the surface. I love culture...

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Brendan, 14 December 2025
I was about to give up when I saw a single photo of a lady who seems to be my soul mate and who had just joined this site. We met for three dates but knew on the first one that we had never enjoyed so much ease in anyone's company ever before. We have never laughed so much or had so may sleepless nights as we communicate daily, several times a day and night. This is definitely it. At our age, we should know. (-;
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I have been with a suitable lady now for about 4 months and will shortly be moving in with her. When we first met face to face, both of us knew we were meant to be together.
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We became "an item" in April and haven't looked back since in 8 months. She had met up with a few people from your site and was on the point of giving up when she had a last chance with me. We had a wonderful holiday together in August - we were looking forward to it so much but it far exceeded our best hopes! Since then I've met her family and many of her friends and got on so well with them. We're due to spend Christmas and New Year together and if all goes well one of us won't be going home as it were.

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