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PadelGalPadelGal
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PadelGal

63 - Esher, Surrey, England

Nothing vanilla here! Enjoy all the colours of life and seeking partner to share sunsets and all the lovely...

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PJonathan

65 - Worthing, West Sussex, England

Available now, for a limited period only: ME. Apply while stock lasts. A very tall man with two sausages - who...

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Bohemian

72 - Ventnor, Isle of Wight, England

Art is not the icing on the cake, it is the cake. If you relate to this, we may see the world in a similar way,...

DreamTravelerDreamTraveler
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DreamTraveler

64 - Sutton, Surrey, England

I am a widower who has recently retired and filling my time with adventures, socialising and diy. I like taking...

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Catmum6

59 - Lewisham, London, England

Animal lover, cinema-goer, family girl, and occasional comedian (reviews are mixed!). I’m 59, young at heart,...

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Lil837

56 - Brighton, East Sussex, England

Bright, positive, caring fifty six year old looking to bring joy, intelligence and charm to your life! I am free...

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Olga, 08 February 2026
I met a lovely man who lives round the corner from me. This was the first person I messaged and the first date I went on. He is the same age as me, attractive and kind, very suitable for me and it turns out we have friends in common. We’ve been in 14 dates together and are now getting close. It’s got all the signs of blossoming into a lovely relationship. I feel very lucky to have met someone. Thank you !
Karen, 26 January 2026
I created an account on a whim and within a few days started messaging a guy whom I have spent the last 4 months getting to know. He seems to be all I've ever wanted in a relationship and I'm very happy.
Sue, 19 October 2025
He lives ten miles away and my absolute perfect match. He ticks all my boxes AND many more and even our dogs are finding romance ('puppy love' lol!) I feel I've "come home" in his arms. Thank you very much all! Sending love! xxx

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