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59 - Peat Inn, Fife, Scotland

I’m a simple soul who loves life. No persona. To be at peace with oneself and to live the truth as best as one...

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72 - Canterbury, Kent, England

I’m a retired doctor turned writer (2 published novels), currently rather blocked. I’d say I’m fairly...

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68 - Hastings, East Sussex, England

Because you're curious and still looking, just like me. Why should people get to know me . . . ? Well I'm not...

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72 - Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England

I was married for over 30 years and nursed my wife through a long illness, so I would say I am loyal and caring....

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53 - Folkestone, Kent, England

Underneath my masquerade of dark and brooding personality is a lover girl who will treat you right all the time

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