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63 - Chipping Norton, Oxfordshire, England

I like to start the day with a trip to a gym/health club. Although from London (family still there) my...

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67 - Newbury, Berkshire, England

I'm a young 66 year old – bit of an old school romantic, I am reasonably fit but want to get better, love a good...

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BetweenTheNotes

60 - Greenwich, London, England

Because I bring warmth, attention, and a quiet sense of humour — and I’m genuinely interested in getting to know...

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Montique

50 - Watford, Hertfordshire, England

I’m curious by nature — about people, ideas, and the stories that sit just beneath the surface. I love culture...

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61 - Southport, Merseyside, England

I’m fun, good company, easy going. Love travel, exploring new places, sampling different places to eat and...

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64 - Oxford, Oxfordshire, England

So… the elephant in the room? The wheelchair? Well I do walk but I also use the wheelchair (I share the...

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Alison, 26 May 2025
I met three very pleasant gentlemen but number 4 was the one for me. We have now been together for nearly four years and are in the process of setting up house together.
Brendan, 14 December 2025
I was about to give up when I saw a single photo of a lady who seems to be my soul mate and who had just joined this site. We met for three dates but knew on the first one that we had never enjoyed so much ease in anyone's company ever before. We have never laughed so much or had so may sleepless nights as we communicate daily, several times a day and night. This is definitely it. At our age, we should know. (-;
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We became "an item" in April and haven't looked back since in 8 months. She had met up with a few people from your site and was on the point of giving up when she had a last chance with me. We had a wonderful holiday together in August - we were looking forward to it so much but it far exceeded our best hopes! Since then I've met her family and many of her friends and got on so well with them. We're due to spend Christmas and New Year together and if all goes well one of us won't be going home as it were.

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