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59 - Kensington & Chelsea, London, England

Creative, refined and cosmopolitan, I’ve lived in different countries and love the perspectives that come with a...

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66 - Wimborne, Dorset, England

I'm decent, kind, honest, and thoughtful, wondering whether this really is the right thing for me to be doing....

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69 - Ashford, Kent, England

Happy with my life; comfortable in my own skin, active, have a lovely home and great friends - just missing the...

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67 - Horsham, West Sussex, England

Funny, well-travelled, housetrained, decent cook, good cuddles, reasonably intelligent, decent looking and...

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56 - City of London, London, England

Boyfriend required 🧩To start conversation needs more than one recent picture. I’m 56, single lady,...

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