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59 - Guildford, Surrey, England

I'm happiest when I'm out on a long walk with my dog, on my yoga mat, at Pilates or the gym, or curled up with a...

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62 - Abingdon, Oxfordshire, England

I’m curious, thoughtful and young at heart, with a love of music, interesting conversations and exploring new...

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72 - Canterbury, Kent, England

I’m a retired doctor turned writer (2 published novels), currently rather blocked. I’d say I’m fairly...

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58 - Selkirk, Borders, Scotland

I’d say my personality is warm, caring, independent, and with my feet firmly on the ground. I appreciate both...

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72 - Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England

I was married for over 30 years and nursed my wife through a long illness, so I would say I am loyal and caring....

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60 - Ashford, Kent, England

I'm warm, independent, curious and genuinely interested in people. I enjoy good conversation, spontaneity,...

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