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41 - Colchester, Essex, England

I am a very outgoing, life loving individual who enjoys travelling, visiting the theatre and opera, and adores...

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73 - Petersfield, Hampshire, England

I guess I could be/am considered to be old school, I like to treat a lady as a lady. I'm a private sort of guy,...

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47 - Sheffield, Yorkshire - South, England

I'm a piano-mad, music-loving 40 something who is still 20 in my head 😁 I started my obsession with the...

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54 - Bury-St-Edmunds, Suffolk, England

Kind, bubbly person who loves animals. I'm the sort of person that loves home but I need to travel (think it's...

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67 - Wimborne, Dorset, England

I am a genuine, sincere man who values integrity, faithfulness and kindness. My wife of 35 years died 15 months...

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