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Allofthisischance

62 - Tiverton, Devon, England

Independent, honest, sensitive, active, earthy, empathetic interests include.. walking, kayaking, 6 music,...

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72 - Cheltenham, Gloucestershire, England

I was married for over 30 years and nursed my wife through a long illness, so I would say I am loyal and caring....

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47 - Leicester, Leicestershire, England

I’ve built a life I’m very happy in and I’m not looking for someone to complete it — just someone rather special...

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Kentishwriter

72 - Canterbury, Kent, England

I’m a retired doctor turned writer (2 published novels), currently rather blocked. I’d say I’m fairly...

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62 - Abingdon, Oxfordshire, England

I’m curious, thoughtful and young at heart, with a love of music, interesting conversations and exploring new...

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59 - Peat Inn, Fife, Scotland

I’m a simple soul who loves life. No persona. To be at peace with oneself and to live the truth as best as one...

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Karen, 26 January 2026
I created an account on a whim and within a few days started messaging a guy whom I have spent the last 4 months getting to know. He seems to be all I've ever wanted in a relationship and I'm very happy.
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I was about to give up when I saw a single photo of a lady who seems to be my soul mate and who had just joined this site. We met for three dates but knew on the first one that we had never enjoyed so much ease in anyone's company ever before. We have never laughed so much or had so may sleepless nights as we communicate daily, several times a day and night. This is definitely it. At our age, we should know. (-;

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